Sam Collier and Toni Collier announced their separation after 8 years due to alleged infidelity. In a startling revelation, Toni Collier, spouse of former Hillsong Atlanta Pastor Sam Collier, the pioneer of Hillsong Church’s first black leadership, announced on Friday her decision to seek a divorce due to alleged infidelity, marking a tumultuous turn in their relationship. This announcement comes in the wake of mounting controversies that have enveloped the global church network.
Issuing statements simultaneously on Instagram, the couple confirmed the dissolution of their marriage, shedding light on the harrowing circumstances. “I’m enduring the most challenging phase of my life. Despite heartbreak, I remain hopeful,” Toni Collier expressed in her statement minutes before 10 a.m. Eastern time. Revealing the reason behind her decision, she disclosed, “After enduring repeated instances of infidelity over the years, I’ve chosen to end my marriage with Sam.”
Expressing her pain and determination to focus on healing with her children away from the limelight, she emphasized, “Despite efforts at reconciliation and counseling, I’ve realized this marriage no longer aligns with God’s principles. It’s time to say ‘no more’.” She reiterated her desire to safeguard her heart and her children while seeking privacy during this phase.
View this post on InstagramIn response, Sam Collier countered with allegations of abuse against Toni in a now-deleted Instagram post, accusing her of being a “liar and abuser.” He contended that the decision to divorce was mutual and cited his previous attempts to end the marriage, claiming that Toni had pleaded for reconciliation and had been the aggressor in their relationship.
However, he later issued a formal apology, acknowledging the inappropriate nature of his earlier remarks. “would like to apologize for my earlier comments regarding my divorce. It did not reflect the leader I am or my sincere feelings. I was emotionally overwhelmed and angry at the highest level. These past two months have been extremely exhausting. Please take the time to read my statement that more accurately communicates my heart regarding this situation and my family. Thank you all for you love and support,” he stated, expressing remorse for his emotionally charged outburst.
Dear Friends and Family,
It is with a heavy heart and a sense of responsibility that I wish to inform you of a difficult and personal decision in my life. After much prayer, contemplation, and seeking guidance, Toni and I have mutually decided to pursue a divorce. This has undoubtedly been a challenging journey for both of us.
Toni is the mother of our children, and I want to emphasize that I will not publicly slander her. It is important to respect the privacy and dignity of all parties involved, especially for the sake of our minor children and extended family. As a man of God I am blessed to know that the FULL truth will be revealed as we navigate through the legal process. I categorically rebuke any unfair accusations and slanderous commentary made against me.
This is not a decision that comes lightly, and I am committed to handling this matter with utmost sensitivity and integrity. I understand that our community may have questions, but I kindly request your understanding and patience during this trying time. I believe that the legal system is the appropriate venue for resolving such matters, and I trust that the truth will prevail through that process.
I want to make it clear once more that I do not wish for our personal challenges to become a public battle. It is my sincere hope that, in the best interest of our family, we can find a resolution that allows each of us to move forward positively with our lives-as we’ve both prayed for and deserve.
Your support and prayers during this time are deeply appreciated.
– Sam Collier stated in his Instagram post.
View this post on InstagramThis public disclosure follows recent social media posts by Toni Collier highlighting her and her children’s experiences while indirectly addressing issues of infidelity, manipulation, and unhealthy church leadership. Her statements reflect concerns about the destructive impact of leaders’ actions on the church and its followers, calling for a reformation in such behaviors.
The Colliers, who formerly led Hillsong Atlanta, parted ways with the church in March 2022. Sam Collier cited the challenging environment exacerbated by various controversies surrounding the church as a key reason for his departure.
Amidst these revelations, Story Church, where Sam Collier currently serves, has yet to respond to requests for comment on Toni Collier’s recent announcement. Despite the tumult, Sam Collier remains optimistic about the future, stating on social media, “God knows the story, and I’m grateful to be here to tell it one day. Here’s to brighter days ahead!”
This announcement adds another layer to the ongoing challenges within Hillsong and highlights the complexities faced by church leaders amid personal struggles and public scrutiny.
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